Tuesday, March 16, 2010

One Secret to Job Search Success

Imagine the employer as an extremely near-sighted individual. It stands to reason that the 'bigger' YOU are, the more likely you are to be seen by the employer. How can you go about making yourself more readily noticed?


Some of the typical ways of doing so include producing a resume, a cover letter, and tailoring these documents to the employer you'd like to communicate with. One less commonly utilized tool is networking.

We've all heard the expression, 'it's not what you know, it's who you know', and in today's labour market, that couldn't be more true. The near-sighted employer doesn't want to stray too far from his desk. He wants to hire the top employee for the position, but it's a lot of exertion for him to get around. That's where your network comes in. The more people you have who know you, know your skill set and what you're looking for, the more likely you are to become visible by the employer.



Who can be built into your network? Friends, family, friends of friends, people you meet who are in the field of work you'd like to get into, former employers, former teachers and mentors, the list goes on. How can you grease the wheels of your network? Don't just talk to these people when you are looking for work, or want something from them. Keep yourself in their minds by doing things for them, showing them you're thinking of them: send, email or give them an industry-related article that might interest them; pass on job leads you hear of that may suit their needs; and be gracious when they do recommend you for a position, even if it doesn't work out.




Along with other job search tools, your network will gradually help you appear in the sight of the employer; look for ways to work it, so it can work for you.


Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Assembly Tidbits

We had our 2 day assembly this past weekend in Terrace. Here are some thoughts I especially appreciated.

Psalm 40:12 - discouragement can be quite debilitating. If you are discouraged, think - how long has it been a struggle? A year? Several years? A decade? Is it a "strongly entrenched" thing? 2 Corinthians 10:4,5. Even if discouragement has become strongly entrenched, there is hope for it to be overturned.
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Ephesians 6:17 - the helmet is our Christian hope, which protects our thoughts and decision making.
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Proverbs 15:22 - keep the lines of communication in the family open; talk about things while they are small matters so they don't become big matters.
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1 Corinthians 9:24, 26. Being goal-oriented is a manifestation of our faith. Set specific spiritual goals. This is different from simple wishful thinking. Need a strong desire, then, write it down - set a date to accomplish it, formulate a strategy, brainstorm possible obstacles. Having short-term goals keeps us spiritually focussed, resisting distractions from the world.
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Psalm 26:3 - be a student of God's Word, applying it. Day's text or 1 Bible chapter takes about 10, 15 minutes to read. Do you ever have a 10 minute coffee break? Day's text & coffee, for example - that simple habit can mean the difference between our keeping integrity and not. Put the Bible in a visible place, where seeing it will act as a reminder to develop the habit of reading it daily.
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Proverbs 24:10 - prolonged despondency can sap our energy, leave us spiritually vulnerable.
Apathy from those we meet in the preaching work can sap us of zeal. Can maintain joy by asking, "why are people apathetic?" Perhaps they're disillusioned by Christendom's religions; weighed down with anxieties; frustrated. If we can feel what our neighbours feel, we will see the need to keep trying to reach them with the Bible's positive message.
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2 Corinthians 12:7-10, Hebrews 13:15,16 - Health concerns can discourage us. Can be comforted knowing that Jehovah does not require more of us than we can give. Requires faith that will move us to action within our limits, as is well pleased with that.
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Hebrews 4:12 - reading God's Word gives us power to think differently, to change our course of action and alter our inner selves.

Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Christian Ways to Reduce Stress

A wise person says, "Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice."

1. Pray to Jehovah

2. Go to bed on time.

3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.

4. Say No to projects that won't fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health.

5. Delegate tasks to capable others.

6. Simplify and unclutter your life.

7. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.) Jehovah says keep your life simple.

8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.

9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don't lump the hard things all together.

10. Take one day at a time.

11. Separate worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find out what Jehovah God would have you do and let go of the anxiety. If you can't do anything about a situation, forget it.

12. Live within your budget; don't use credit cards for ordinary purchases.

13. Have backups: an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.

14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut). This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.

15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.

16. Carry a Bible with you to read while waiting in line.

17. Get enough rest.

18. Eat right.

19 Get organized so everything has its place.

20. Listen to a tape (perhaps Watchtower CD) while driving that can help improve your quality of life.

21. Write down thoughts and inspirations.

22. Every day, find time to be alone.

23. Having problems? Talk to Jehovah God on the spot. Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don't wait until it's time to go to bed to try to pray.

24. Make friends with Jehovah's people.

25. Keep a folder of favourite scriptures on hand.

26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good "Thank you Jehovah for the Ransom of your Son!"

27. Laugh.

28. Laugh some more!

29. Take your work and ministry seriously, but not yourself at all.

30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can). Forgive others so you also can be forgiven.

31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).

32. Sit on your ego.

33 Talk less; listen more.

34. Slow down.

35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.

36. Every night before bed, think of one thing you're grateful for that you've never been grateful for before.

ALMIGHTY GOD HAS A WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU.

"If Jehovah is for us, who can be against us?" ~(Romans 8:31)

The above was sent to me via email, and I posted it for two reasons:
1st, to share with others; 2nd, to have handy for myself!

Monday, November 12, 2007

Missing

At night I can see her
In the places I look . . .
Her glass of red wine,
The couch, with a book.
When I see her, I smile,
My heart misses a beat.
I've missed her so long;
Her image is sweet.
She catches my glance,
Returning my smile,
Then vanishes, leaving
The empty floor tile.
And I lose her again
Every night, every time
And the wounds become fresh
With every clock chime.
I try to forget,
Carry on, fighting forth
But the memories haunt
Of that night on the porch . . .
The rain driving down
As she kissed me good bye,
Her turning to wave
At the end of the drive.
The inky black night
As it took her away.
Would I ever have guessed,
I'd have begged her to stay.
Hours ticked passed,
And months turned to years;
Never knowing for sure
If she'd ever appear:
The groceries she'd gone for
Loading her arms
She'd took a wrong turn -
No need for alarm.
Or maybe she'd sat
With an old friend she knew,
And lost track of time
Over coffee for two.
Our door stays unlocked
Every night, every day
Lest she ever return.
I can pray . . . I can pray.

(11/11/2007, Amber M. Graham)
Inspired by a photoset by Milwaukee John

Saturday, September 01, 2007

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

The following poem was inspired by
this photo by one of my contacts on Flickr...



(heart not in my hand by MilwaukeeJohn)



Pendant Forged from Silver

This letter leads to treasure
Since forever I'll have gone
I left a sign
For you to find
My love will carry on.

The tree that we sat under
Just near the bended path
Overlooks
The babbly brook
And knows my love will last.

A pendant forged from silver
Fifty paces to the right
You'll find just near
The bushes where
We stole our kiss that night.

Recall the stars that evening?
Then the grasses wet with dew?
I never thought
I could have got
A second glance from you.

We knew that I'd be leaving
When the night gave way to dawn
Wrapped in my arms
You gave your charms
To remember when I'd gone.

And oh how I'll remember!
Every moment, every sigh
Your tender kiss
Eternal bliss
Only witnessed by the sky.

The pendant forged from silver
Keep it close upon your heart
Remember me
Remember me
Ever after I depart.

~Aug. 28/2007
Amber M. Graham


In fact, this has made me think of an idea for a new scrapbook project: pairing poems with images that inspired them and/or suit them. I'm not sure of how exactly I'll do it - if it'll just be poems I've written, or if it will be a combination of my poems and those of others. But it should be a delightful project!

Saturday, August 18, 2007

For your shopping pleasure

I now have an online gallery with redbubble, where I've uploaded a few of my photos. They are for sale as Canvas Prints, Framed Prints, Mounted Prints, Laminated Prints and/or greeting cards.

If you don't find something there that you like, feel free to browse my Flickr site, as I can make arrangements to have 99.9% of the images there uploaded to RedBubble for your shopping pleasure. Email me (amboire [at] yahoo.com) with details about the image(s) that you'd like.

Sales of some of the images I've loaded to RedBubble will benefit the Prince Rupert Wildlife Rehab Shelter. In particular, a percentage of the earnings on any photos that I've taken at the shelter will be given to the shelter. They have been so generous and I feel this is a grand way to show appreciation for them and the tireless work they do.

Thursday, August 02, 2007

Check it Out!


At the beginning of the year, I joined a group on Flickr, called Utata. It's a lively group which runs special projects and assignments that members can participate in (or not).

They have a yearly Big Project, which will appear online as a zine, and will also be published in print. I had been wanting to do something for it since the project was announced, but it wasn't until the night before the submission deadline that a series of words started to form in my head and prevented me from sleeping...

I was able to enter in four of the six categories: landscape, stock photography, portrait, and (the aforementioned) special project.

So please, check out my submissions! And, by all means, feel free to enjoy the other entrants' work as well!

Monday, July 23, 2007

More about Alaska

Since we didn't manage to film OUR experience on the Unlimited Thrills Ride in Anchorage, I filmed the people who went after us... I posted it on my Bebo site so you can check it out.

Here is a photo we took from our visit to the Alaska Branch Office... the Branch Office actually closed just over a year ago; I'm pretty sure it operated out of the Kingdom Hall, anyway, so it would probably have consisted of a few rooms. Here, though, the mail box and sign still has a place near the front entrance of the Kingdom Hall.




I don't usually take photos of the Kingdom Halls we see - that's more Chad's thing - but this one was just gorgeous. As you can see, it was red brick; plus, the greenery and flowers you see a glimpse of actually spread around the whole building, including several planted areas within the parking lot.

Friday, July 13, 2007

Alaska was Amazing!

So here's some more about our trip...
We went on an Ultimate Thrills ride one afternoon. Chad was in a store getting memory for his camera, and while I waited, I could see this ride at a place across the highway. It was like a giant slingshot - and you get to sit on the "rock"...



You get the idea, right??

It was totally, terrifyingly AWESOME. 11 stories... 4 G's of force...

We tried to film it with our Sony camera, but Chad accidentally hit "off" instead of "record". D'oh!

Fun, huh?! It was such an adrenalin rush! Waaaaaaaaaaa hooooooooooooo!!!


So let's see, we saw (in the wild): LOTS of moose; black bears, a grizzly bear who was eating dandelions, while surrounded also by purple lupins; a beaver; porcupines; rabbits; gophers; marmot mom & pup; foxes; a wolf; squirrels; swans; seagull colony with chicks in the nest; harbour seals; sea otters; dall sheep; mating dragonflies; sandhill cranes; Chad got pooped on by colony-defending seagulls while getting pictures of geese & goslings; a grouse with two chicks, a pair of Arctic Terns (they're really pretty, especially in the air) and, magpies! (They're one of my favourites - and we haven't seen them since we lived in Princeton; so I was really excited.) We also saw, in captivity: buffalo, muskoxen, elk, plus some of the animals also mentioned above.

We went to a day and a half (Friday morning, and all of Saturday) of the Convention in Anchorage. There were around 2,700 people while we were there.

Also, we had to camp at the border because the crossings are only open for certain hours each day; but it was neat, cuz we saw the sun set around 1 am, and rise around 3, without getting dark in between. It's a really strange feeling!

We camped ten nights all together, and didn't have even a single campfire! I did, however, have two days' worth of diarrhea. That was fun. Actually, that was the crappiest part of the whole trip! :p Good thing we'd bought that porta potty!

So, check out our pictures: mine are here and Chad's are here.

Sunday, June 10, 2007

Our Baby Moose is Famous!

Morris was on the CTV National news tonight! They were doing an 'article' on the weather / flooding in BC, and part of it dealt with how wildlife is affected.

It turns out, another baby moose (a girl) was stranded by the flooding, then rescued and taken to the shelter in Smithers. So, there was our Morris (the slightly larger moose on the left) bottle feeding along with his new companionon TV.

I really hope I'll get to see him when he's grown up! But in the meantime, I recorded the news clip, and it's posted on my Bebo site. Enjoy!

Thursday, June 07, 2007

The Tale's Conclusion

Well, our time with the baby moose, Morris, has come to an end.

Last weekend, Chad & I drove him to Smithers, where he can grow up with limited human contact, in a large free-range area that will make him more likely to be able to be released to the wild.

The people at the Rupert shelter gave us a thick black plastic sheet to line the back of our truck, and sleeping bags to cover that. Then the woman at the shelter prepared a bottle for him, and I gave it to him before we left. Then they helped us load him into the back of our truck, gave us another bottle and some willow leaves for the trip, and we headed out.

Anyway, a few hours, and one speeding ticket later, we made it to Smithers in one piece. And boy, was Morris glad to get out of that truck! The put him in a smaller outdoor pen, surrounded with a wire fence. They use that while the animals are young, and still need to be bottle fed. We got to go in and spend some time with him, and say good-bye. He was doing well - he adjusted with NO problem to the "formula" they use. Then we had a brief tour of some of their property- including seeing their resident cougar - and got back in the truck to head out.

As we pulled away, I saw that Morris ran the length of his pen, trying to follow after us! It was so heartbreaking.

I have no doubt that he will do well in his new home, and I hope that I'll get to see him again once he's all grown up. It was an amazing experience, and I will cherish the memories I have with him for a long time.

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

A most thrilling experience

Last evening, after work, Chad & I had the most amazing experience.

This moose calf's mom was chased off by some dogs, and didn't come back to him. He's less than a week old - he still has his umbilical cord! The conservation officer intervened on the baby's behalf, and made preparations to get him to a wildlife shelter. He was going to be headed to the rehab shelter in Smithers, but due to the mudslide that closed the highway yesterday, ended up bringing the baby to the Rupert shelter in the meantime.

The shelter's owners gave him a rehydration solution, and the vet gave him an injection of precautionary antibiotics. Chad & I got to spend some time with him. I ended up spending about 5 hours with him, trying to get him to drink the goat's milk the shelter owners provided.

A few times he tried to suckle my NOSE!! - a most amazing, delightful & bewildering experience. By the end of the time I spent with him, he was quite excited to have the milk, and drank a fair bit. It was thrilling.

His prognosis for an uneventful release looks good at this point, though it will be several months. I'm going back shortly to spend some more time with him, and feed him some more; but in the meantime wanted to share some photos I took yesterday.


Wednesday, May 09, 2007

Have you ever....

.... wondered: If I was a cat (or, if my cat was a person)~ would s/he still like me?

Or am I alone in this?


Anyway. We spent a couple days in Maple Ridge this past weekend. It was our final free flight from our Flight Pass. We flew down Friday evening ~ Mom and Dad picked us up at the airport. And we came home on the Monday morning flight. We had a nice time. Had dinner at my older brother's house with his family and his parents-in-law on Sunday evening. We shopped at Value Village Sunday morning. Chad got a few ties, and I got two tops. Actually, I got four tops, but since I didn't want to try them on before they were washed, only two of them actually fit. And, since we don't have a Value Village here or anywhere close, Mom scored herself some store credit. :)

Sunday was also our anniversary - seven years! Time is *so* weird. On one hand, it feels like Chad & I have known each other forever. On the other hand, it feels like time has just flown by!

I went to my first meeting with the camera club on Monday. It was an hour long, which everyone (else) considered to be a short one. I think Chad & I are going to go check out the museum exhibit today; the opening went well on Saturday apparently. I want to get pictures of my pictures on the wall. :)
Joining the Community Band is probably not going to happen. A while back, the conductor emailed a schedule of their proposed up-coming performances. They're going to play at SeaFest, which I could have done, if it wasn't the same weekend as our Convention. I didn't want to go to all the practices for a performance I won't be in - I don't think it's fair to get the band used to my being there, then bail for the performance. *shrug* So, camera club will get all the necessary Mondays.

Monday, April 23, 2007

whatever

OK. So I'm not liking this Google-account merge with Blogger. ARGH. It's really not user-friendly.

*sigh*

Anyway. So remember how excited I was to start dance lessons? We had our first lesson on April 4th. I think there were 3 or 4 other couples there. We were the worst. I asked the instructor if we should bring our *own* dunce caps to the next session. ;p But, by the time the next week rolled around, we both decided our enthusiasm had waned. And, we MIGHT have played hookey! THEN, last week, it was such an amazing afternoon and evening. We spent several hours out taking photos, had a lovely dinner at La Gondola, saw a fabulous sunset... and forgot all about it being lesson night. Seeing that there are only two lessons left, and we've missed the last two, I think it's fair to say we won't be attending the rest of the classes. Oh well. We still know how to have *fun* on the dance floor. :)

In other news, there's a new baby boy in our congregation. Jeriah Gregory Jordan, born in the last week of March. OK, I'll say it - whenever I hold him, I've been trying to pollinate...

Oh oh! And today I just found out that friends of ours in Squamish are proud parents of a new baby boy, too - Shale Walker. He was 8 pounds, 5 ounces. Yikes. I ordered them a little something from Cheeky Monkey today. Apparently they're quite handy!

A while back, the local Wildlife Rehab Shelter sustained damage from a snow storm. So on Friday, Chad & I went there to do follow up on their repair process on behalf of the paper. It was absolutely amazing. We got to be within feet of eagles, a barred owl, wood ducks, a halk... deer roam free on the property, and I guess bears do as well during their waking months. You can see pictures from our time there on my Flickr site. The couple who owns and operates it, Gunther and Nancy, are such sweethearts, too. They're unpaid volunteers, and are on-call 24/7/365. For 18 years so far. They were so hospitable to us, and said we could go back anytime we wanted. We want to spook the animals as little as possible, so although we will likely go back from time to time, I don't see it being a really regular trip. But the experience was amazing. And it got me to thinking, perhaps instead of setting up a bat house near our place, I'll maybe set up an owl box. I just fell in love with Filbert, the owl there. Such an absolute sweetie! And so adorable!

Oh yeah.. I spent a couple hours at Emerg. yesterday. Saturday evening, I started to feel that weird sensation when your heart "skips" a beat. I get that occasionally. But it persisted over night, and into Sunday. So Sunday afternoon I went to get it checked out. Of course, when they did the EKG, the sensation never occured. (that would be just too convenient!) But the Doctor said it sounds like I was experiencing PVC - pre-ventricular contraction - which is when the heart misses a beat, then the next contraction feels like a big thunk. He said it's nothing to be overly concerned with, but he ordered some blood work - specifically concerning my thyroid, since apparently that can cause heart palpitations - and said if the problem continues, they may order a halter monitor. (I had one before, you wear the equipment for a day, going about your regular activities, and if/when you experience the symptoms, you write down the time, and what you were doing. It records your heart activity, and then they compare the heart record with the written journal to see if they can pinpoint the problem.)
I had the blood work done today, and booked an appointment for Thursday afternoon to discuss it with my Doc. So we'll see what's up with that.

And speaking of hearts, check out Amie's Cafe Press store where she features products with her Bandaged Heart design! She's got some cool stuff on there... I especially like the "Nerds Rock" stuff. And, the journals they sell are really good quality - the paper is ssoooooo nice to write on!

Wednesday, April 04, 2007

Relief and Recent goings-on

Wheewwww!



The production of Anything Goes is over! It went a lot better than I had anticipated; the performances by the cast were fantastic, and the pit orchestra did a wonderful job! My parents came up (and stayed for about a week!). Mom and Chad attended opening night; but DAD came to all three. (To Chad's credit, he DID attend the final dress rehearsal).



I'm considering joining the community band after this... they meet Monday evenings, though, which will conflict with camera club once a month. I'll be thinking about it some more.


On the topic of camera club, every year they have an exhibit at the local museum. It runs for about a month. The opening night reception is being held May 5th, and the exhibit ends around June 15th. Chad and I are each getting photos printed to submit to the show. I've decided on these three:
"Summer Serenity" - will be a 14 x 11
"Waterfront Silhouettes" - will be a 10 x 8.

"Gone to the Dogs" - will be a 10 x 8.

We'll unfortunately be out of town the night of the open house; we just booked our final two flight credits from our flight pass. We're going to Vancouver May 4th and coming back May 7th. But I just ordered some photo calling cards, so I'll get another camera club member to take some to the open house for me.
On that note, I shall bid adieu... we have our first waltz class tonight, so I should get started on something for dinner now!

Monday, March 12, 2007

Treasures from our Trip

I took a few notes during our workshop this past weekend... the main thrust of the workshop was photography relating to wildlife. Here are my notes, in the order they were taken. (meaning, they may not flow together or make sense as a whole.)
Every animal is different. Know the animal and how to approach it. The better you know the animal, the better your chances are for a great shot.
Aggressive behaviour on your part = stress on the animal.
Animals judge their surroundings by: 1) movement 2) sound 3) smell
Be cautious at first. It's better to let the animal approach you.
If you approach their area openly, they have a chance to adapt to your presence. If you behave like a threat, it'll spook them.
Be aware of the background in the photo: judge the lines, the light.
Birds communicate with each other before they fly.
Bird decoys can work to attract them & make them feel safer with your presence.
Find the animal that tolerates you the most.
Find the habitat first, then find the animal.
Cloudy days are best for photographing wild flowers.
Try to avoid busy backgrounds. Keep it clean or scenic.
Spend a bit of time cleaning up the foreground if possible.
Sun doesn't wait for anyone. There's about a minute before you lose the pink.
The day before, scout your location, pick your equipment. Next morning, go to it, set up, and shoot.
You can only do what you can do and hope it turns out.
Shoot different frame sizes, angles, (wider-angle, etc, vertical / horizontal).
Get down on the animal's level.
Follow pairs of birds long enough for their wings to be in sync.
If using a split-density filter, use a graduated one so there isn't a strong, noticeable line of difference. If holding it by hand, make sure it's tight to the lens.

Thursday, March 08, 2007

I'm *so* excited!

Well, we're finally going to take a dance class!

I've been wanting to for a few years now, but either
A.) We lived in an area too small to offer dance classes or
B.) The classes were held on meeting nights.

So when, last week, the newest leisure guide arrived and I found that there was a "Social Dance - Waltz" class starting soon, and to be held on Wednesday nights, I emailed Chad at work right away!! We registered today, our first lesson is April 4th, and the class runs till May 2nd.

It should be fun! Or at least, it'll be exercise. :) And maybe I'll be a little more confident dancing...


Oh! And something else. We've both joined the local photography club. They meet once a month (on Monday evenings), and have guest speakers/instructors, little competitions, and field trips and such. We're going on a field trip this Saturday at the Kasiks Wilderness resort (between here and Terrace). We'll be looking for opportunities to photograph swans (they're in the area right now) and maybe moose... or whatever else happens to wander by. :) There'll be either one or two guest instructors who will be observing us in the morning, and who will thereafter give us pointers on how we could improve in our techniques. I'm looking forward to it.

And guess what? One of the field trips they're in the process of planning is with a real-life CSI guy who's going to show us some of the photography techniques they use in the field, and then let us try them out. How awesome is THAT??!! Suits me perfectly seeing as how I've been interested in the field for so long! I can hardly wait!

On a less exciting note, rehearsals for the pit orchestra have been painful so far... man do I ever suck right now! I've got plans to go out in service tomorrow morning, but I plan to really hit the "books" in the afternoon.
Oh, and my parents are planning to come up to "watch" me in the pit. Heh... they won't see much of me during the show, but they're going to stay for a few days. It should be so nice!

Monday, February 26, 2007

Photobooth Phun

We were at the Winnipeg airport yesterday and decided to get photos taken.
The first one caught us (a bit!) off guard. I'd *just* dropped in the coins!


As you might have guessed, it was rather interesting trying to get both of us in the frame! lol